Personal detress and idea to make a shop

I am adopted und when I was young I made debts because I was depressed... My companion come from a real family but his mom left him when he was 10 and when he wa 12 his father did the same... And from his 17 years old to his 29 he made debts... We have 3 children (1years old, 5 years old and 9 months) and we make everyday all the best we can do for them... But life is life, my companion is depressed (medical certificate on request) but he has some very very goods ideas ti be independant and have some money y ourself... Today, he learnt the our debts make that we cant something here because we have to be clean... This evening he tols me that he is thinking about suicide... I am afraid but I belive about his project and we need about CHF 200'000.00 to make it... I just want to help him and give a good to my children, an example for them... Just want to live and be happy with my family... So please help me to make it real....