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Hi there I know that this may seem cheeky and that I should do it myself but if it was that easy I wouldnt be asking for help,  I dont know what to do any more, myself and my fiance have been engaged for 9years, we have planned our special day many of times but due to ups and downs family illnesses mainly cancer, and my own illnesses we havent managed to get married,  we planned it for this year and everything seemed to be going well but now we have come to the 1 month mark and we are struggling, and can no longer afford to pay the whole fee for the church, have applied for many loans to no avail, we have no one to turn to this was a last resort.  We have my uncle who doesn't have long left and have wanted him present at the church where he, my children and I were christened my grandma and gamps  were married and family are buried, with out the rest of the fee we will have to cancel the wedding again. So if you can help we would be truly grateful.