Our babyboy is on the way and we need our own flat

Hi, my name is Stefan(27) and my fiancée is Ildiko(25). We wait together baby boy (we are in 7th month) and we are trying to get a mortgage on our own apartment for about two months. We found the specific apartment, but the bank wants from us more and more information, for example, about our employers which is just a bureaucratic, time-consuming and stressful. So I decided to try this form of funding our new own apartment, so that we can start thinking more about family than about where to get 60,000 Euros per apartment. Therefore, if you could, then please help us. Thank you very much