Nerve Damage Back Surgery

Here's my family all together. Been undergoing many Procedures. I have severe Lumbar issues, The goal of a decompression surgery is usually to relieve pain caused by nerve root pinching. There are two common causes of lumbar nerve root pressure: from a lumbar herniated disc or lumbar spinal stenosis what I have. A decompression surgery involves removing a small portion of the bone over the nerve root and/or disc material from under the nerve root to relieve pinching of the nerve and provide more room for the nerve to heal. I have been the working Father for 20+ years supporting my family and now with issues I'm having it has become a chore going from doctor to doctor running like crazy while in pain the entire time. Not working is a challenge and with some support from friends and family they have helped me deal with daily struggles. I'm looking forward to finishing and going through this surgery to get back to what I done best is work, so my family can be happy all of us together. With all these medications it is destroying everything inside me and one does not live forever taking pain medicine so many times a day. My family and I have struggling to get any kinda of help to get the surgery done. Any help is greatly appreciated. Thank you