We are trying to pay for our wedding on our own. With us both having been dealt financial struggles in the past (divorces, and bankruptcy because of the divorces), we find ourselves struggling to get enough funds together to have the wedding/reception/honeymoon we desire. We both work full time and take care of our 2 kids, but since we are not young anymore and our family's aren't able to help much with the wedding, it falls upon us to make it happen. We have some things paid for but find that we don't time left to pay for the things we need before the date arrives. Any help is much appreciated. Thank you in advance.