Need helping hand emergency

Not sure where to start. but I’ve always worked since i was young, now I’m hitting close to 40. Over 10 year ago my ex husband ruined our family an was abusive an ruined credit. We had two little ones. But in the last 10 years have remarried an we added 2 more. We’ve always had 2 or more jobs each. But over last few years I dealt with cancer twice, surgery. Medical alone as set us into debt, add in when you can’t work. And on top of other bills. We’ve sold just about everything we can. Were down to one barely running car. Worry from day to day about how to feed kids. No matter how hard you push forward you just keep getting knocked back. I want to be able to pay our debts an continue treatments as needed. But we need help. At my darkest point I even wondered if there was a life insurance that covered suicide. Just cause at least so my husband could get out a debt an give our kids a better chance. We can’t pay enough an we can’t pay fast enough, there taking to court, garnishment an taking our tax refunds. We can’t survive taking this too. I don’t know what else to do.

Thank you