Hello everyone , i m alamin from bangladesh. 23 years old. an Unemployed Student.
The main photo of this Fundariser page was been taken on 02-02-2015 that was my parent's 25th wedding ceremony. Because my family knew that my father is about to leave us soon. And we are not about to have an opportunity to celebrate 26th.
that's why first time me and my brother have tired to take a family pic and have a family time. you can certainly see the worries on my father's face. He left us 6 days later after the Wedding ceremony.
Why i m here ?
This is my destiny or nothing. from my childhood and till now i have been always chase behind the happiness. but happiness is too faster to catch. on last 08-02-2015 my father has left us.
and he was the paralysis patient since 2007 when i was 15 years old. it was an unexpressible life story of him. but we were really very happy with my father, mother and one younger sister(8) and brother(18).. i can certainly say that we were the best family. because we weren't happy but we always did chatting and enjoying our company. our family was like a Club. Everything was okay. Suddently my father got Some pain in his belly. He stoped taking food.
We took him to the hospital. Doctor Adviced a lot tests. i m probabbly trying to make my story short.
then doctor found the symptoms of Cancer. Certainly i didn't believed that. However it was an inexpressible moments we have passed. i had opened a fundariser page for my father to save him. But i have got 200 dollars through offline from my american Client(i m a 3rd class freelancer).He had a storng willing to live with us but creator decited to do something else.
i can remember when situation gone serious ''i prayed to my god to take my father off but stop giving him more pain''. his Urine ejection was got stopped. 72 hours he couldn't eject his urine. he was reacting like a crazy.
Kindly if you go here then you will understand the story of my life. the fundariser page which was been created for my father : https://gogetfunding.com/project/save-my-father-s-life-from-liver-damage
what is my goal or planning ?
In bangladesh, here Part-Time job's escape is not so available. because all you need a relative in the organization or you can't get job. me and my family have to survive till i can finished my study.
my younger brother read in collage and my younger sister read in class four.
We have already spent our all the liquied money what we had. and after his dead our villagers bounded us to held a funeral for him when it was just six days of my father's dead. that was also very difucult . because it's cost us 400$ but fortunately 200$ were beared by our relatives. but still have 200$ responsibility. that was a fool rule to kill us. but we had to did it because we don't control the village. i really don't like that culture's rule. As if villagers had got an opportunity to have a picnic in my house !!!
Now my aim is, My relatives are seems very sympathy to our family because just our family lost the gurdian.and like a selfish i will have to take this advantage for my family. my mom's younger sister's husband wants to take me in Dubai. But unfortunately dubai visa is currently off for bangladesh. will have to wait till it get open for us. but this time is very bad.Even i do not have passport. this is really shame to get helped by relative. why i telling this ? because if any relative helped you then they always will get smartmate in fornt of you. and never let your heads up to them. Naither i want to be their survent or listen insult words from them that's why i have chosen this way to survive.
and i have many experiences like this and i have been already suffering from this trouble since 2007 after my father's half dead i mean when he got paralysis.. That's i m ready to take help by Unknown ppl but don't want to Cut my head off to my father's brothers. This is not my era but this is advance care about my life. because i can endure the smakes but can't endure one's bent talks to me. that's why i have chosen this way to get helped. you will help me unconditionally and will never see you in real so you won't get any chance to make me your survant. This is really very hurt you have know idea. My relatives always try to let us remember about their help anyhow so that we always listen to them and be their survent. but i m ready to die but don't take any help from my father's brother or Villagers. but my mom's sisters has huge contrabution in my life. but they are also not rich.
i just wanna survive Still i can get me in Dubai i mean still i can Stand on my own leg.and still have many loans on our family's solder. today a Canadian Gold hearted women sent me 91$ CAD to me.. a while ago withdraw it from Western Union Money Transfer.
She just adviced me Her life was also like this. and she can't forget the help and support of ppl she have got in her earlier life. that's why she helped me and adviced Be a Gold hearted one. Though she was just my fb friend but she was the Witness of my life's shocking events. even she is from another country and another religion.
Yup, promise i would be like Her.. Humanity over nationallity or religious believe.
Here my FB where you will found my last 3 years activites www.facebook.com/alpapy420