My wedding

I am trying to plan my real wedding. I got married at the magistrate to my amazing marine but we planed on having a real wedding some time in the future. We don't have a set date right now because we were gonna wait a few years to have are real wedding but recently my grandfather's cancer spread to his bones. My grandfather means the world to me and I really want him at my wedding so I am trying to come up with the money fast but bills and life is just making it hard to save anything let alone in the time to have my grandfather here with us. I just can't have a wedding without him. So if anyone can help me out I would greatly appariate it. It would mean the world to me for you're help. I would like to get married on Nov. 25th 2014 to honor my grandparent on here wedding anniversary. Please help me if you can.