My father, still fighting @84
Fundraising campaign by
Marilou Magparangalan
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₱37,500Donated So Far
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Campaign Story
About 7 years ago, my father started hemodialysis treatment twice a week for his stage 5 chronic kidney disease. Shortly thereafter, we had to take him to the hospital on 2 occasions for pulmonary congestion which resulted to him needing more dialysis sessions. With this added cost, somehow, by the grace of God, we were able to cope with Tatay’s thrice a week dialysis during the first 3 years.
During the last 4 years, however, he has been in and out of the hospital for several episodes of lung congestion, pneumonia, surgeries related to his dialysis access, heart attack, stroke with vascular dementia, COVID-19, sepsis, and hypertensive urgency.
Hospitalization has become routine for Tatay. His frequent hospitalizations, which are already 4 for this year alone, were in the range of PhP150,000 to PhP450,000 per admission. These have been hitting us really hard which magnified our distress with my father’s health status. In order to cope, we resorted to selling the remaining properties of the family which unfortunately was not enough to cover years of medical expenses. My sister’s house we are living in will also be sold after settling a land issue. My siblings, who have their own families to support, contribute, but due to the nature of his chronic illness and the resulting hospitalizations from complications, it put our family in financial crisis.
On July 4, 2020, Tatay suffered a debilitating hemorrhagic stroke which led to his admission in ICU. He was unconscious and had to be put on ventilator. It was a touch and go situation. His prognosis was quite bad but Tatay surprisingly continues to fight.
At the moment, our partial bill amounted to P456,000, it is staggering and we are really in dire straits. That is why I decided to have this fundraising program for Tatay. I want to help with the medical bill in any way I can, as I myself cannot work, being my father’s sole caregiver and assisting in my mother’s care also who is wheelchair-bound for rheumatoid arthritis.
My siblings are doing their utmost best to gather resources but due to the huge amount we need to raise, I am now here humbly asking for your donation in order to raise funds to help pay Tatay’s hospital bill.
I want to thank you all in advance for your kindness and generosity in helping Tatay. GBU
*You may choose the convenient mode for you:
~PayPal/credit card. ~GCash or PayMaya (09083665236). ~BPI Savings Account #4439-0604-04 Acct name: Marilou Magparangalan
Organizer
- Marilou Magparangalan
- Campaign Owner
- Laguna, PH
A daughter....a sister who just wants to help in any way she can....
A daughter....a sister who just wants to help in any way she can....
Donors
- DING MANTARING
- Donated on Jul 20, 2020
Lilot/Annie, Praying for your Tatay’s quick recovery. Ding M.
- Anonymous
- Donated on Jul 20, 2020
Get well soon Tio Peping!
Home at last
Update posted by Marilou Magparangalan at 04:00 amAfter almost a month in the hospital, atay was finally discharged and is currently recuperating at home. He is still very weak especially on the right side because of the stroke but he can move it and there is less swelling. With continued improvement over time, hopefully, his NGT can. . . . .
Out of ICU now
Update posted by Marilou Magparangalan at 02:18 pmFor starters, thank you so much everyone for all your prayers. Through God’s merciful intercession, it was decided upon that Tatay is not a candidate for tracheostomy anymore. He can now manage to breathe just with the use of the nasal cannula oxygen. As a result, he was transferred out. . . . .
Tatay now
Update posted by Marilou Magparangalan at 03:40 pmAfter being slowly weaned from the ventilator, Tatay stays on oxygen. He is awaiting schedule of his tracheostomy. There are days he’s asleep and days awake. There are also times he remembers me and times that he can’t.
Donors & Comments
- Anonymous
- Donated on Aug 08, 2020
Best wishes and prayers for your Tatay. Regards, Ferdie and Gie Pilien
- DING MANTARING
- Donated on Jul 20, 2020
Lilot/Annie, Praying for your Tatay’s quick recovery. Ding M.
- Anonymous
- Donated on Jul 20, 2020
Get well soon Tio Peping!
- Anonymous
- Donated on Jul 19, 2020
HI Myla, Sana gumaling na ang tatay.mo. Ipagdadasal namin sya. Say my regards sa Mommy and.mga kapatid mo. and God.Bless and stay.safe Rsgards Winbel (Wewen) .
- Anonymous
- Donated on Jul 17, 2020
Get well soon!
- Rosanna Nuestro
- Donated on Jul 17, 2020
Praying for fast recovery of your Tatay Lilot.
- Anonymous
- Donated on Jul 17, 2020
- cherry santos
- Donated on Jul 17, 2020
hoping for your tatay’s full & fast recovery
- Marilou Magparangalan
- Posted On Jul 17, 2020
Thank you my dear relatives and friends ❤️ God bless and keep safe
- Giselle Jaudian
- Donated on Jul 17, 2020
Lilot, hoping and praying for your father’s quick recovery and wellness. God is good 🙏🏻
Best wishes and prayers for your Tatay. Regards, Ferdie and Gie Pilien