my existence

hy i am a simple man I am 30 years old and currently live in Germany where I started to work as a private businessman inr interiou buildings .i do not have any illness or difficulties. four years ago my ex-wife got me into big debts for which I had to raise a loan that now can not pay more for a while, my bank sits on the neck and i have no more than a possibility that in this way, Ask for help if there are still good people, with all the financial problems I want to get engaged because the girl lives in another state and can not recognize her for my  mistakes of the past and for financial needs. Hereby i look for people who could help me to get out of some problems so  that i can somehow normally livemany thanks to all who want to help