My husband and I have been together for three years now. In the second year together we found out i was pregnant. We were a mix of excitment and fear. At the time we lived in my Husband's Dad's garage. I had a job, and my husband tried so hard to work too. He has metal plates and screws in his foot from an old football incadint that led to the breaking of most of the bones in his foot that causes him a great deal of pain. The plates were supposed to be removed after his foot had healed but at the time he had moved from California to here in Washington and didnt have any insurance. He also had medical bills already stacking up and didn't want to deal with another huge medical bill. So he'd work occasionally for as long as he could with whatever job he could get. Anyway, after a few months we made a deal with my family to rent out a stuido appartment they have in their back yard. We got married in September of 2013 early during my pregnancy. Not long after i was fired because i couldn't do my job well enough for my boss. He made up something to basically cover that he wanted to replace me so he didnt lose a worker during my maternity leave. I was about 6 months pregnant at that time. We went from just enough for rent and every day living costs, to nothing. So we had to borrow from my parents. Which has left us in a lot of debt. Now Our son is now 5 months old. I have a job that i may be losing because my husband's uncle who i was close to hung himself on mothers day and i left for a week for the funeral which was in California. When i got back i was feeling ok enough to work. I went in to work and get yelled at by my boss saying how I'm lazy and it's ridiculous that i was gone so long, adding in that he had NEVER had so many days off in his intire working career. So he cut my hours to nearly nothing. I have been working my tail of to earn hours back to no avail, and have applied to every place in town and called each place repeatedly. But this is a small town with not much opportuinties, and too many others who also need jobs. We recently have been able to get him insurance and the surgery is going to be next month! We are very excited to get this dealt with. He wont be able to work at all till his foot heals. I want so badly to pay back my family, and the medical bills we have. Be able to move to our own place, but life keeps pushing us back. To top it off I recently found even through we've been safe... I am pregnant. So theres that too now. I wasnt able to enjoy my first pregnancy because of everything that was happening. I really wanted to not have to worry about all this debt, and have a place with enough rooms for our family. I will work as much as i can as long as i can but i need help if i want to be able to no longer be such a burden on my parents, and be able to have a place for my family. So i dont have a one year old, a new baby, my husband, and I cramped into a small studio apartment. I feel ashamed having to ask for help, but i know i owe it to my son and the new baby. I want the best for them. God bless.