Money for infertility and home

Hello,

Infertility is a major issue today. Sadly, it’s a major issue for my husband and I. Married for 7 years and trying for 8 has been straining. When I was younger, my childhood was never easy. I spent many years afraid of being a parent. I was always the designated babysitter, taking kids out. Having them enjoy moments. Now 36 and married I want to feel that joy with my own children.
Seeing my husband struggle with me everyday has caused him depression. From watching folks send him pictures of children, to people rubbing it in his face that his wife is unable to has been hard. The many night that he hides his tears because to him he only wants a child. I offered adoption but we can’t afford that as well. He’s a successful man but ITT tech demands he pay them back. Dealing with a bipolar wife, and taking care of finances has been hard. He is my light and I know I will never make enough to give him that dream. I only want him to have everything his heart desire.
To make matters rough on him, he’s also been dealing with overweight and is going to spend what little money he has on surgery. So I beg you please help my husband and I have the children we desire. Surrgency is expensive we ask that you help us with these fees. So that someone special may carry a child for us. I’ve tried several things with fertility doctors and it has piled up our bills more. At this rate he will never experience fatherhood, and his family will still keep giving him humiliation.

Thank you for reading,