I am the adult child of an alcoholic home. I have been in a 12 step program for 27 years and in therapy for 20 years. I have done alot of work on myself. The one part of my life that is not settled is my love life. Fraught with grief, I have either chosen poorly or not choosen at all. Two years ago I joined a small dating service that did not find me matches. Last year, I joined another more national chain and was in a relationship for 10 months. We recently broke up because he never wanted to get married or have his life change. I do. The match making company we met through is no longer in business. There are only a few match making companies still reputable and in business. I have found one and would like to join, but the fee is $3900.00. I am a school teacher and this is very high price for love. Any help would be appreciated.