I am in love with Bobby, we are in love. He is an American and I am Australian. This is the kind of love you dream about, the kind I never imagined would happen to me. We need money to be together. I have been in many abusive relationships and he has been in relationships where he is the object not the partner. I/we cannot imagine being with anyone else anymore. I am a nurse and have raised 2 children on my own with minimal child support and have little money. Bobby has suffered from substance abuse but is now clean, in fact he is the stable half. Those years though stole his money making ability. He is a wonderful contract painter. We lack the funds to be together and that is causing me a lot of stress and sadness. I finally found real love and now there is this new barrier of distance and immigration.