Dear friends, I am ashamed to ask for help when I tried to measure everything myself, but when this something is so important for this most important person in life and you see her suffering, you cannot be proud and self-sufficient. The situation I am describing may sound unreal and difficult to understand - the very notion of the scale of it all took a long time, but please read it and judge for yourself and decide if it is worth helping.
The case concerns my fiancée. She is a young girl, but the life she struggles with is not the kind that one could wish for even her worst enemy. From an early age, she had problems with stress, which only got worse over the years. They intensified to such an extent that learning initially in small stages, then completely transformed into homework, leaving home from regular turned into sporadic, contacts with others, such as everyone has, avoiding almost everyone. It is really terrible, such a young person locked in the prison of her own body that makes her fear the world and others, not letting her leave the house and try to get used to everything around again. Already before the age of 18, she was diagnosed with disability group 2 and total incapacity to work with the minimum national pension, which does not suffice for too much, let alone the amount of medications for uncontrolled panic attacks, which would let alone one who has just entered this world. Despite many years of help from a psychologist and a psychiatrist, the condition did not improve significantly, but we are still trying.
The only solution I can see is to live away from the hustle and bustle of the city in the bosom of nature. There, the number of factors that could harm her would be minimal and she could start all over again. This is something I would wholeheartedly want for her. This is where the problems begin, namely the costs associated with it. From my salary and her pensions it is difficult to set aside enough money to collect for a house at the current rising prices. We don't need much, just so much that it would be a place where I could see her happy and able to leave the house and smile again. I would give all of this, which is why I am asking you all for help. Even if it was small, every zloty of us is something extremely important. Thank you very much to everyone who will support this cause and give this young dear girl the opportunity to live. Because this is what I have been fighting hard for years.