Hello, i've made this page for just one purpose: ask for help
My english is not perfect, i'm italian, but i think that i can explain almost everything even if there will be many errors and something may not be too clear, so sorry for that.
My girlfriend has a son with a guy that has allways disrespected and hurted her but she kept on staying with him for many years just for the child sake since she grew up without a father ( he was killed on duty, he was a policeman ) and she knew how hard it is to grow without a "real" family.
She had a restaurant/pizzeria and her ex-boyfriend worked there, they opened the activity to give a future to theyr child and also to try one last time to stay togheter as a family since she had to flee from him more than once after he beated her without reason many times..... about a year after opening the activity things dind't go well between them and he forced her to leave work or else he would have ruined her if she kept the restaurant, so they signed a contract where he should have bought it in a determined amount of time and some days after he sent her away from the home where she was living along with her son, he was living at his mother house since a couple months before.
She lived at a friend house sleeping on his sofà and she workend during the week end on a place where i usually go, that's where i met her and instantly fell in love with her!She was depressed because without a house she was forced to give him the custody of her son but at the same time happy that she could remove that man from her life, not imagining that during the time he had the restaurant in his care he wasn't paying any bills or material he used to work, until just before the 25th of december a guy that sold beer to the restaurant met her and informed her about the debts he was leaving her.... in the end she was left with around 30000,00 euros of debts, around 10000,00 euros of taxes not paid and he also stole all the income he had during the 3 months he worked..... i've tried to help her with some of my savings by paing some bills and giving her a home since i was living alone and we both fell in love.... she was able to work for a couple months once she got back the keys of her activity ( and he also hurted her again the day she went to get em back and she had to go to a hospital) but it wasnt enought since the debts were too high and the restaurant lost a lot of customer when he was there alone and she was forced to close it.....
in the meantime he also tryied in many way to keep their son from seeing the mother, he kept him during all the winter holidays and she wasnt able to see him for 15 days, and when she finally was allowed to see him after a call from her lawyer the son wanted to come back home with his mother, but even after seein them crying for about 1 hour the father didn't want to let her spend some time with the child and he attacked her again, almost choking her and hurting the child that was in her hands and sending her in hospital againAfter those episodes he start a legal battle against her accusing her of house violation, child abduction, violence and also started a cause to get the infant entrustment.....This is why i'm asking for help, we'd like to marry someday but we can't even think about it until we find a solution to this situation, right now i'm maintainig her and the child the few days she is allowed to see him before the court decide something and i've already pay'd some bills from the lawyers but i wont be able to pay everything, i also have my activity to run and in these times is not that simple bringing home all the money she needs to get out of this mess.
I've tryed to find a way to get the money she needs to repay the debts and get back her son from that dangerous guy and live togheter with him in our house (even if he will allways be his father and see his son every week)and this seemed the only possible way, so please, if you can, even just a little, make a donation, i don't care if its 10 cent or much more, anything will help us! You'll have my deepest gratidute and off course i'll upadate proof of all the money i'll use to help her as soon as i have something in my hands!
i've set my goal to 50000,00 € knowing that i wont reach it, that's more or less the amount of money that we'll need to cover her debt and pay the lawyers but even getting 10 € out of this will be a good goal and a great help for us!