Lawyer costs due to harassment from Ex-Wife

To anyone who knows my pain.

I have been divorced for 9 years and have shared custody, but for some reason my ex-wife keeps coming with undocumented financial claims. Every time I want to resolve the issues with just the lawyers, but then she bails and I am left with a bill and no cure.

She keeps doing this and has changed lawyers, as her first lawyer wanted her to agree on normal terms, she has the luck she does not have to pay her lawyer, but I do.

Now she has taken it to court and it already has cost me more than € 10.000 euros and i am getting near the edge of bankruptcy and don't know how to pay the lawyer bills and this will cost me a lot more then I have.

I am a normal hard working dad trying to give my kids the best, but as my ex keeps trying to bleed me dry for more money I don't have, I can't even buy my kids a birthday present.

If I was not near bankruptcy I would not even dare ask for help(pride), but I am defeated and broken at this point.

If you can help me out, I will be extremely grateful and hopefully it stops and my kids will have a normal life with a financial healthy dad.