Jay-Jays Headstone

hi everyone and thank you for your time in reading my story. On the 13th may 2011 me and my partner went into the labour room to have our first baby boy. This sadly was not to be and our son had died.. The post mortem results showed that the reason for my son's death was the doctor used the forceps a bit hard which led to brain tissue clogging his arteries to hes heart ... We tried to fight this but we never stood a chance we was young and didn't really know how to .. We have been told this is a very rare thing to happen ..we tried to get it to court but we had to give up after our legal aid ran out we could not afford to take this any further ..all I can do now is go to his grave and speak to him there and this is the reason I am on here posting this message to you all, I still have not been able to afford the grave stone me and my partner would like to get my son and I'm asking for anyone's help to get us on the way to finnaly giving my son hes headstone .. Thank you all for listening I appreciate any help or donations given ..once again thank you x any questions please just ask .