I saved $2500 and I thought it was enough but it seems I was wrong after chatting about this with my fiancée. I love her very much but her parents ask for a higher dowry besides her ring and bracelet and wedding. I was crushed and even cried, I can’t eveb think that I can lose her. I called my 401k to get money but I already have reached the limit of two outstanding loans and none of the hardship conditions applies on me for money withdrawal. I asked my friends and it seems they’re tight on money. I don’t blame them.
$4000 will make me the happiest man on earth because I love this girl and I don’t want to lose her!