I am going to be sharing some very personal information with you in my story.
If anyone who reads this has ever gone through a messy divorce then you know how hard it can be for the party who doesn't want to let go. I am in need of assistance finantially due to my husband being a controling person and me not haveing a penny to my name. I do not work because he told me I didn't have to, he also never helped me get a license so I could drive to where I needed to go (aka didn't allow me to get a job even when I wanted one).
He joined the Marines and became more controlling. Then later on he started to talk to his ex, and I found out he still loved her. Once I found out he decided he did not love or want me anymore and kicked me out. He sent me to my parents home over 1,000 miles away. He now wants a divorce and I have no money other then that he gives me. I don't know how long I will have specifically to get this money but I do know a divorce can take at the minimum 3 months. He said he wants ME to move out of OUR house and so this is where I will need this money.
I would need money for a down payment, first months morgage payment and money for other essentials that he won't allow me to take such as a washer/dryer and other kitchen electronics. I don't know how much exactly but I thought $5,000 would be enough to get me started and allow me to have a little savings until I can find a job. However, I thought it would be a bit much to ask for in this program and I thought $3,500 would be enough to help me start over.
If you know about how much I would actually NEED to start a new life for myself please feel free to tell me because I am scared to death about this. I have no idea how to live on my own anymore due to being with my husband for 9 years. He controled me so much that I became dependant on him and now I have no idea how to live on my own.
Any donations you could make to me would be so greatly appreciated!! Any advice would also be a blessing. Another note: I am looking into a house or an apartment but will probably have to get a house because of the breed of my dog. Not many pet friendly apartments around especially for pits.
Thank you to everyone and anyone who reads this and donatates even a little bit! You are a blessing on my new life!
Now I he has decided to KEEP the dog from me so he said I should get another one from here. Also I have gotten a job but due to my hours I would NEVER be able to support myself on my own. He still refuse to help me with any money and I don't know how I'm going to do this. I don't know what to do because now I do not have a car (HE is selling my car to get money) or my license because he has my documents that I would need.
Please, I still need a LOT of help on starting over with a new life away from my abusive/controling husband.
Thank you everyone for reading this.