I am a 27 year old from Johannesburg. I need help from the community and residents of South Africa to walk with me in this difficult times. I know its cliché hearing someone plea for help but this is my last resort hense I have no one but my unemployed mother to hear me out.
I tried all I can to put food on the table without having to engage myself in bad habits or any form of sexual activietes. I tried my personal best working in call centers and saving all that I could. My mother and sisters kids feed off through me and its painful to see my mother helpless and feeling hopeless.
I wanted to build my mom a house something small but something she can call home since she has a land but no money to make a home. I had saved up to R100000 since 2013 till 2019 and unfortunately I didn't put the money away in the bank I always kept it with me.
With the grace of God I had a believe in me that one day I will finally get my break through. I met a wonderful Igbo man from Nigeria who was looking for a life partner and I was also at the same state. We dated for Two and half years and now we are expecting a baby boy. His intentions with me are on point because he has already spoken to my family about us getting married and his family paying dowery for me.
As I mentioned that my Fiance is a Nigerian man residing in South African he has been abused so badly and harrassed by the system I believe should be protecting people only because he is a foreinger. South Africans has a stigma that if your a Nigerian you definitely are a drug dealer and for me that is so not true. My fiance is a Christian and tries all he can to provide for his family back in Nigeria and myself without breaking the law.
There is a day when a bunch of fake police with the help of four official police had a riot at my place comming unwarranted and beating up my Fiance in my presence as pregnant as I am. The scuttered my home took my valuables such as phones, laptop and jewelry and also took the money I was saving all these years without giving me a slip that proves that they have booked them in the police station. I asked them to show me their identification cards and tell me which police station are they representing they refused instead they slapped me telling me that I think Im smart questioning the police like that.
Everything I worked hard for was taken me and my fiance were left with nothing. We opened a case with the police but I see no progress I somewhat feel like they are being bias against the fact that they can't be disloyal to their fellow police co workers.
Please help me I want to finish this small house , get married and start my life afresh. We are now living like hobbos I thank God that we have not yet resorted to drugs cause no weak person can live like this sober. We are going through each day by the grace of God. Please help me. I need help. Its sad cause most of our people in South African don't like to help each other but I will do anything to help my self and my family before I end up being a list of woman who needs saving from themselves.