I've had a really tuff couple of years over a year ago myself and my girlfriend took the plunge and bought a house together on a mortgage. She is a children's nurse and I had a part time job so we managed and just got by. We never really do anything together or go out etc which we knew would happen when we bought the house . Things started to get tough financially and nearly tore our relationship apart soi left my part time stable job and tried to better myself I got a new full time job but after a month I was laid of leaving me with nothing I have tried just a about everything to get a new job and even gained new qualifications to belp me with no luck. I have noticed there a hell of a lot of hgv jobs out there and my dad also being a hgv driver its a field I have taken a very keen interest in and having a job offer for me if I passed my hgv licence its something I really want to do but in order for me to get my licence its gonna cost the best part of £8000 and this is were im turning here to help me get to my goal and dream.Between me and my other half wehave had everything thown at us and i just dont no how much more i can take before i crack any help would mean so much to me.