I lost my grandmother to pancreatic cancer 3 weeks ago. Her battle was short, less than a month from diagnosis and the toll it has taken on my grandfather is horrific. I would like to go back to South Africa to go visit him for a month or two, and help him get back on his feet - teach him how to cook, etc. At the moment we are buying him ready meals online, having them delivered to his door. Unfortunately as everyone else, I am strapped for cash and this makes it really difficult to try and save money quickly enough to go back.