It all started in 2011 when I graduated highschool. I wanted to attend Medicine Faculty but my mother forced me to study architecture (because my father is an architect and my mother is a very materialist person who wanted me to become like him). I studied in the first year in Romania, but it became too hard for me with no architectural backround to survive in that university. I received a chance to study abroad in Greece in 2012 with the Erasmus programme. I applied and got accepted so I went to Greece. I was living from my Erasmus scholarship because none of my parents wanted to help me. The reason I went to Greece is because there the Architecture Faculty was easier and they had less subjects to study so I thought it would be a good opportunity for me not to drop school and study there.
I studied in 2012,2013 in Athens and in 2014 I once again applied for the Erasmus + programme which enabled Erasmus students to study one more year at their previous Erasmus chosen university.
At the end of 2014, I received the bad news that they will not give me any scholarship but they will allow me to study in Athens till I finish my degree.
I tried to survive there but it was hard with no support from home and no scholarship. I was installing Windows to people for some revenue, my landlord was so kind to help me stay for free because she understood my will to finish the university in Athens. She took pity of me because she found out that my parents arent sending me any money and I am not able to survive there with a revenue of almost 50-100 euros per month from installing Windows.
I stayed in Athens and learned architecture one more semester, untill March 2015. But then, I received an e-mail from my home University in Bucharest, stating that their bosses from the Erasmus programme reviewed my stay there and they want me to return home because I stayed there too long (3 and a half years).
I returned to Romania on March 2015 and got face to face with the cruel reality. I had to come back in a class where 2-3 people remembered me, no teachers knew me, with third times more subjects to study in comparation to Greece, alot of tests. I couldnt resist so I froze my year.
When my mom found out she kicked me out of my house in the street with nothing just my clothes on.
She never wanted to talk to me again after that because she is obsessed with having a child with superior studies and thinks there is no life for people without a Degree.
Then I met Monica, my actual wife, in a park. We became boyfriend and girlfriend and she was the only one who cared about me, went with me at the hospital, accepted the fact that I am poor and the money I do at the job will be enough only to cover the rent and buy food. I got employed and work on a salary of almost 350 euros per month. The rent and expenses are 250 euros per month and the rest of 100 euros are kept for food. She cooks and cleans the house everytime I am at work and I love her and everything about her.
I want to provide a home for our future child but I am certain that I will never be able to do that with my current salary and there is no hope I will be able to get employed somewhere else because the process takes too long and I need to pay rent every month else the landlord will kick us in the street.
About my wife, I did not let her work because she doesn't have the final highschool exam taken so she can only work as a cashier but so far they have only illegal programme because we are living in Romania and laws don't matter to most little business employers. The normal work schedule is 40 hours per week, 5 days per week, but they wanted her to work 12 hours per day for 6 days a week, which is not good for her health. (for the same salary she would have earned if she worked for 8 hours per day/5 days a week).
I want to enjoy our youth.
I am asking you good people to give me and my wife a chance to buy a house in the country side and to settle there.
Here is the house we want to buy: https://www.olx.ro/oferta/vand-casa-lungesti-valce...
I might be able to negociate it at 10000 dollars.
If you feel like you want to help us, please donate any sum you wish on my PayPal page: paypal.me/Roltube
Honestly, I have no idea how much to ask you for, but is a gift of $3 something you'd be able to consider?