So where do we start really? First of all I would like to thank for you viewing our page. This basic goal would be to help fund the cost for surrogacy to fill our lives.
Back in 2015 I got talking to a coupe who had the same views to want to have a child, I was hooked as this is always been my dream to be a father and being a gale male this would be such a hard thing to achieve, We spoke for over a year going over what would happen as that it would be lovely to have me as a parent involved etc in the child's life once they are born. I was very excited and keen as we seemed to want the same out come. Long story short Everything went very successful and after their second appointment at the clinic they become pregnant, this was of course wonderful news. During the process of myself going to the clinics I had to sign and fill a couple of forms in, Not 100% knowing what I was signing until I signed , I was signing all my rights away :( There was no talk about this anytime between the time or first contact with the couple as we did meet on a co parent website, however I felt as we had planned and waiting for about a year I wanted it to go ahead in hope I would at least get to see the child. Long story short now, The child is now 3 years old, a beauty boy. I have only seen him 4 times which is pretty sad.
More trys with another friend:
We have been trying to have a child with a friend however that doesn't seem to be working either at the moment. She has not fallen pregnant and does not look promising. The only way forward we can see as an option would be surrogacy guarantee from an agency which will make this work and will guarantee the result wanted but they do require payment which is why we need some help. We are happy to pay anyone back who is willing to help.
The good news is , as I have been in a healthy relationship we are ready to have a child of our own and care for, we have been looking at the options and costs involved. Pretty steep if you ask me however a child is priceless, I have always wanted a child from as early as I can remember. I have 5 siblings, I am a twin, Another brother and 2 sisters. This is the perfect time to be having a child as 1 of my my brothers has two boys ages 5 and my sister also has a 1 year old! So jealous and proud of them at the same time, would love to join in the sibling children meet ups.
There are of course the route of adoption in the future, This will be a option looked at, I feel its better to try surrogacy first, if that's an option for us we would love to make this happen.
A little about what we do:
I work full time at the moment in the week and also do wedding and portrait photography on the week ends, I have a create talent as I can always work around having a child at home, Being a photographer clients can come to me which is amazing as I can spend more time with the child. We are in the process of also planning our wedding in the next 2/3 years not forgetting saving for a deposit for a house, So as you can imagine its all going on at the moment. We just have so much love to give but no one to get this to..
This may not seem like a big deal to most people but to us its a massive everyday thought, do you have children? How would you feel is they wasnt there, please give us this wish to help us have a family. I am willing to swap my skill set. As a photographer I am willing to create some magical images for your family.