My father wasn't the best person and definetly he wasn't the best father. He cheated people, made fraud business and he completely destroyed my family. He was mistreaing my mom and us. He left us on my 18th birthday, on the very same day he told me that he wanted to give me a gift that I was gonna remember for the rest of my life, several hours later he send my mom a text that he is not coming back to us because he was in love with another woman. In that time we had a restaurant but the problem was that months prior his leaving he stopped paying for everything, employers salaries, rent, bills, health and social insurance for us. When he left he said that he was gonna transfer the restaurant to my name since my mom didn't have a permanent residence so she couldn't technically own a business (we are from Macedonia but we live in Czech Republic) when he gave me all the documents to sign, he basically transfered all his depts he had to me. I didn't know about them until I started receiving messages and letters from dept collecting companies. Needless to say we couldn't keep up working with the restaurant since my father took all our savings with him and he only left us with 10€ in our bank account, so for the three of us - me, my mom and my younger sis we had nothing to live from. Before he left us, my mom lost both of her parents as well so suddenly she was left completely alone in a foreign country with no support. She was depressed and I was the one that had to take care of everything and find money for rent, food, school etc.
As I'm older now, I'm glad I had this experience in my life because I learned what does it mean to work hard and to appreciate everything you have (we went days without food, months without electricity and years with a pain in our hearts from not knowing what tomorrow will bring). I went through so many dark thoughts and I made it out alive. I had to stop my studies and I had to do so many odd jobs just to make ends meet. I'm still grateful for every single experience I had because it made me who I am today. The problem is that I still have all his depts and whenever I start working on a normal working contract the dept collecting companies come and take pretty much everything. My father ended up in prison 3 years ago so there is no chance he can take the depts on his name back. I'm 25 now and I would like to start my own family and I would like to work for one company where I can make a career but with all these depts it just seems like its impossible because if I don't pay them in full they just keep growing and I keep running in cyrcles.
I'm pretty much in a corner and I don't know what to do, this is a shot in the dark and I don't even know what can happen with this but I'm desperate so I'm asking anyone out there to help me, anyone who has a spare amount of money that they won't miss I'm asking you to help me pay off for something that is not my fault but is destroying my life. If this is going to work I'm literally going to break down and cry because being able to live a life like a full person, not feeling ashamed because now Im even getting declined at a job interviews because I have depts or I'm always being said no to when I want to get any contract on my name because I'm a registered person with dept, I would feel like I was reborn and that I can walk with my head up and I can create my own future without scratches from the past.