My name is Decsy Paul Adrian. I was born in Romania in the small city of Arad. My life had it's moments but, especially at the beginning, it was that beautiful. I used to live with my parents and grandparents in a 4 room apartment.
I can't say I had a great life overall. At the age of 6 or 7 I had so many syringes used on me, that in present I have a phobia of needles. At the same age I got very close to anorexia because of that, then I got obese trying to fight my anorexia, which was bad. But after that I started to have a normal weight at the age of 8-9.
As I said above, I used to live with my grandparents and parents ,in the same apartment, but that eventually changed. My parents ,they were arguing more and more, add to that my often nightmares, my sickness and that I had just 3 friends, and you may understand why at 7 years I got into hospital because I refused to eat food because of how sad and angry I was on life. This has happened so far. Not long after my brother came to life, my parents divorce followed. I have lost my only 3 friends as we had to move away, once in rent and now, my mother living in her own apartment for which she has to repay a loan half her life.
Besides bad moments in life I had good ones too, like the time I got engaged. I got engaged to the most beautiful girl ,that I love a lot, but for us to be close I had to move in Lithuania. Life now is happy, with small bumps. I have tried to find a job, and found one, which will end in February this year. The only hope for me, to stay here and not be "a parasite", is to study. I would have 100 something €, from the university ,as my parents are divorced. Not a lot but enough for me to survive, as I get to study and to be with my fianceé. Sadly, so far everyone told me I would be helped, but every time something happened. My father refuses to pay for it, my mother was very sad to tell me that she would pay, but then she would not have money to pay the bank, thus becoming homeless, my grandparents live from a small pension, my fianceé and her family have money, but not enough to keep their house, their business and to spend 2100€ at once. Even worse, I could take a loan, but just in April, and the university made a compromise, and told me that instead of paying in February ,I can pay in March.
I make a call to you, if you could help me in my life journey, in saving my life and saving my relationship, as if I would be countries away from my loved one, without a way of meeting ,that would be too painful for each of us..