Help me provide a home for my familly

Hello, my name is Vladislav and I married the girl of my dreams last year. We are very happy, but there is a big gap in the whole situation. We don't have a place to call our own. My mother-in-law has made sure that my wife won't get anything from the house she grew up in, and my parents cannot provide enough funds to get our own house. We are now literally living separately, since the apartment of my parents cannot house two families, and the house that my wife lives in is shared between her mother and sister, and they clearly do not want to help us in anyway. All I want is a place to call our own, the castle for my family and a place to raise our children ( which we cannot afford to have at this time, since there is no place to raise them) Please help us, we tried to go to the banks for a loan, but we were turned down everywhere.