Help Me Lose Weight

I am a 39 years old female and I have been overweight since I was a child. In the last 6 years, I have rapidly gained more than 70kg. When I started to develop health issues, shortness of breath and sleeping disorder, irregular periods and extremely obese. When I went for a medical check, the doctor said that I need to lose weight and being obese is contributing to all those health issues. I signed up for slimming programmes, dietary supplements, gym memberships, and even engaged personal trainer. But before you know it, I quit. I spent a lot of money and charged my credit cards for these but all I got was accumulated debts, not losing weight. A personal trainer had me doing burpees and other heavy exercises during our first PT session, I ended up sick for 2 weeks. I was embarrassed to go to the gym because I seem to develop low confidence and became paranoid that people were looking at me when I go to the gym. This condition has worsened, I don’t even want to go out of the house except to work. None of my clothes would fit and people will stare and laugh when they look at me. I also became afraid of bumping to friends and people I know so that they don’t notice my size and the way I dress. I have recently seen a doctor who specializes in bariatric surgeries and has recommended me to undergo the treatment to address my health issues. I am considering this option but it costs about USD 9,000. I don’t have that kind of money as I am still paying off my credit card debts. I would appreciate for people out there to help and donate even a dollar so that I can eventually collect enough to undergo the procedure. Thank you.