Help me!! i lost my wife and kids

Hi,  I need help getting my girlfriend and kids back, the center of love lies with them. I sought before, that was with the bank. I told them i had a financial problem, not a big problem but one i could not resolve in the given time. Sinds my employer went bankrupt, i was out of a job and could solve the moeny problems and pay the mortgage. They were willing to help me, and i would get the money i needed from my mortgage.I got them the needed papers, though suddenly they were unwilling to help me. I explainend them the trouble i was in, and that if they didn't help, things would spiral out of controle. But they decided they were not going to help me.. I was speechless, cause they just termined the life i knew. 2 weeks later i get a call from the bank.. They decided i could pay my mortgage anymore cause i was out of a job, didn't missed a payment not even one time, so they told me to sell my house.. That meant my kids would be exposed to things that they didn't deserve, they were innocent. So their mother and i decided to split up. A mother alone with kids, is able to get a place to live much easier then when they are a couple in the Netherlands. I didn't want my kids to see me in the downward spiral i got trap in.. Holland is a great country, when you are doing great. But when you have problems like i have, there is no one to help you..  The 1st of october 2013 the house was sold, i could not be with my girlfriend and kids. Cause they were being taken care off, and were safe from the big debt i had.. The house sold for only 50% of my mortgage.. so that meant i had residual debt of € 87.000,-. Sinds the bank didn't have real motivation for selling the house, selling of the house was uncalled for.There were other solutions. Like putting up the house for rent and find a cheaper place to rent myself.. so i could pay my morgage and payoff the debt i had. Still, it was sold and i could not get it back.. Sinds i don't have any money, i cant pay a lawyer. The bank is a big cooparation, finding a lawyer that will fight them for free is non existent.. So i was getting depressed.. realy depressed till point of breaking down entirely.   At the moment i'm homeless, out of a job cause of the mental problems i developed, depressed.. and worse of all i cant be with my kids and the woman i love.. and fighting the bank, trying to make them see what they did. Legaly they didn't have the right to do what they did.. But they did it anyway.. i cant receive unemployment benefits, cause i don't have a home. I cant a place to life, cause i have a big debt, in hollend they dont rent to you have a big debt.  I filed a official complaint with bank, but they just want me to pay, they don't want or are reluctant to do an internal investigation.... I'm tired of fighting and just want to go home to my kids and girlfriend.. rolling over and just pay may sound like giving up.. but my spirit is starting to break, i have anger issues wich i can not control anymore.. all because i feel like being treated wrongly.. i always helped out the people around me , i dont mean my family or friends, but people in general...  Now i am a person that needs help.. getting enough money together, means i can close this dark chapter of my life and be with my kids and girlfriend before that is irreversibel to..  I am not the type of person to beg... but i'm in a position that i must.. Please help