I know I do not know any of you personally and I thought about this for months. I am still not sure if anyone will help us out.
My girlfriend is from Philippines. She has a cute daughter who is 2 years old. I met her almost 2 years ago and we fell in love. We talk every day on skype or phone. We both do not earn enough money to get united asap. It is so hard for us both.
I also talked to her family ( mom, dad, cousin, aunt etc ). They are all wonderful people and hopefully someday in the near future with God's blessing, I might meet them.
Because of the hard life in Philippines, she decided to go do domestic work in Saudi Arabia. The employer paid for her travel expenses. She left her daughter at her dad. She talks to me when she get's a chance as her employers sister has no internet. She said it is terrible there and wishes she never went to work there. She cries every night. She misses her daughter and me. We both miss her too very much.
She will use 4 months of her salary to buy a ticket to go back home in December 2013. She was allowed to leave earlier if she paid her ticket herself. Her contract was for 2 years. I am glad she can go back to at least see her daughter and family again and we can talk again every day.
She never asked me for money all the time I know her but when her daughter got sick, I paid for her medicine and she always shows me with videoproof that she does get medicine for her daughter.
I consider them both as my family. I want to marry her and accept her daughter as my child. We both want more children. She met my family too thru skype.
I am going to Suriname in December and i'm staying there for 6 months. My ticket is paid for by an aunt of mine. I want to buy 2 tickets for my girlfriend & daughter to come stay with me in Suriname. I will marry her there when she is with me. You may ask, why not in The Netherlands ( Amsterdam ). The problem is that The Netherlands thinks everyone from Philippines only want to come for work and we have way to hard visa requirements for Philippines. If she comes to Suriname, there is no visa requirement. I can marry her and get them both Suriname passports so they can come back to The Netherlands with me and we can take care of all other paperwork.
So now to why I can't pay for the tickets myself. I am disabled without work living on welfare. What I get is just enough to pay all bills. I can hardly save any money. I live on my own and have enough space ( rooms ) to live with her & her daughter. I studied Marketing & Communication and graduated in February 2002. Finding work is hell as no company is interested to hire a disabled person. I am trying to do something on my own and my motivation for trying, is my girlfriend and her daughter. You might not believe someone could really love a disabled person but we can prove you wrong.
If all goes well, I will add photos of us together here. If more money is donated than needed, it will go to a disabled organisation in my hometown in Suriname. You will make the disabled children very happy as they can go out and have fun. They barely see the world outside. It is sad.
Please help us. God bless you.