Hi everyone my name is Tanya and I’m 32 years old, January this year I found out my husband was having an affair.
Here is the difficult part I have no family or no friends because many years ago we moved from the town we were born in losing all my friends.
My husband has all the money I have nothing, I have no id, no bank account etc
He keeps full control of everything and told me if I mention the affair he will leave, leaving me and my three children who are 12,11,6 without a penny.
He continues to have an affair while I have to say nothing in order to feed my children, my life has become hell and it’s making me sick with depression.
I want to try raise money to be able to get my provisional license or another form of picture id so I can open my own bank account. I don’t know much about the benefits system in the U.K. but I know the claims etc take up to 9 weeks so I’m hoping to raise a little also so I know I can buy food in that time...I don’t want to rely on him or wake up with this stress anymore but before I can leave I need id without this I won’t be able to claim any benefits and I’m out of work now
I’m desperately trying to raise cash so I can say leave and know me and my children have a little cash for food and I have things in place to be able to claim benefits
I feel so trapped and have access to no cash at all it not a life jusyba mere existence
I will forever grateful for any donation and I thank you massively in advance