Hello To all, Since I was just a young lad I have always dreamed of gettting married. My parents have been married for 44 years, and I grew up in a very loving home, and the example of marriage was obviously a very good one. I have been dating girls since I was 14 years old, but I had a very hard time finding the woman that was in my eyes, the one, the ace, my dream girl. I have always respected women as I had a fine teacher in my father. There were times that my kind heart got taken advantage of and hurt really badly, but it never changed me and how I look at life and what I thought was a perfect relationship. My Last relationship was a long one and for the first while it was absolutely incredible. Always getting along and no arguing. Affection and holing hands and kissing. The good stuff. It came down to some issues from my partners past and she became very mentally abusive and became unfaithful and I tried my best to help her, but she was finished with me and I left with the clothes on my back and a small bag with other belongings in it. I became very depressed and I started to believe that the romances you see on tv are all fake and would never happen for me. But my mother always said to stay positive and the woman would shoe up when I least expected her to. It was hard to believe what mom was saying was true at all and I was single for over 4 years. The summer of 2012 I began talking to a girl who I had known through friends but never really had much contact with. The two of us hit it off unbelievably well, and we have been engaged for over a year now and weve sent out our wedding invitations for our wedding that is supposed to be this summer. I was rear ended at a red light by someone who was texting and driving and my injuries caused me to have to take a week off work. I am a welder and I had a great job and everything was looking great for our wedding and we had a budget set out so that we would be able to make it happenno problem financially and everything was good. after being off for a week my injuries weren't looking good and I got laid off by my employer. I have had zero incoime since and Im waiting patiently to receive my disability cheque, which doesnt really do anything at all for us financially. It has caused a lot of stress in our household, and It breaks my heart that we were so close to achieving our goal and had I not been rear ended by a girl texting while driving everything would be great. I am struggling to make ends meet at the moment with our mortgage and bills that keep rolling in. The bank doesnt care that I am disabled the bills still need to be paid. Thank god that my wife has a decent job but her money goes into the account and is gone right away. I fear that we are going to lose our house that we have worked so hard for and I hate to see my bride to be saddened and stressed out everyday. Its torture. The thing that is absolutely eating me up inside is that I found the woman of my dreams and everything was in line and worked out to make our big day a reality, and it all got taken away by a distracted driver. All the stuff we stand to lose is a big deal to us, but its all material and can be replaced, I dont want to have to send out a letter to all of the people that we invited to our wedding saying that the wedding is off. if none of this wouldve happened I would be working right now and attaining all my goals, and my bills wouldnt be all piled up. I WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING FOR MY WEDDING TO HAPPEN AS PLANNED . I NEED A MIRACLE AND I HOPE THAT IN THE NEXT FEW MONTHS WE CAN RAISE MONEY TO MAKE MY DREAM COME TRUE. GOD BLESS EVERYBODY WHO STOPS AND READS THIS.