Korean war vet and his family needs your help..

I am raising funds to keep a friend who had breast cancer and her husband who has stage 4 C.O.P.D and also prostate cancer and their two children in their home which is totally paid off.
His father who is 87 and a Korean war vet, is in a nursing home due to severe Dementia, that cost $4,860 a month.
The V.A. has said they lost his records and so far hasn't helped.
He purchased the house for his son and grand children 16 years ago, but failed to protect it even though its in his will.
Due to the fathers ownership of the house it is considered an asset so he doesn't qualify for any other benefits till the house is sold.
The state will come in and take the property sell it and leave the family homeless when he runs out of money.
Which will be in March. She has had to sell off over half of the property to keep him in the nursing home, which only gave them 6 months. The only part left is the house they live in.
She cant work due to issues from the breast cancer surgerys and also taking care of her sick husband.
This money I am raising will keep the father in the nursing home so that the state wont take the family farm.
Any donations is greatly appreciated. Lets all work together to help this family keep from being homeless.