In June of this year I was hospitalized unexpectedly due to an internal abcess. I self diagnosed through the internet making it worse and prolonging treatment. I could not put off seeing a Doctor once I started a fever and was in horrible pain. My body started shutting down. I found a Doctor that could see me the same day and immediately sent me to another Doctor who sent me to the hospital to be admitted for emergency surgery. I was in the hospital for 6 days and required a visiting nurse once I came home. Thankfully I had my sister to watch my three children and family pup. About a week or two after surgery I got another fever and called the nurse line. I was advised if I kept the fever to return to the hospital because they feared all the infection was not removed.
Sadly I was not able to keep my job and struggled to pay bills and struggled with my pride but did take a loan from my sister. Fast forward to now, my Ex has followed through with his threats to take my children because I am so behind in bills resulting in shut offs, etc. Right now as much as it pains me my Ex is right. I can not be the mother my children deserve right now especially in a freezing cold home with no heat. My Ex may have not been the best to me but he loves our children. Since my Ex has the kids he no longers pays our agreed child support. I am healing slowly but the stress is making it even slower. I am very capable of working and just need to properly heal so I can return to the workforce at 110%.
What I am asking for will help with my healthcare expenses, utilities, rent, food, car insurance, repay my sister, etc. Thank you for any help you can give.