DETERMINATION THROUGH ADVERSITY
Raising funds so I can speak at a woman's summit I have been asked to speak at which will take me to new heights removing my Broken Winged Flight... I am ready to have Flight within my Light and ready to be of service to anyone who has suffered abuse of any kind through my workshops and speaking.
When you leave abuse or any or a dysfunctional relationship you struggle to get ahead financially, yet this has not stopped me. In the mist of my Broken Winged Flight I have developed my own workshop called Soar High and written four books all geared around me changing my life for a positive new direction, yet i seem to come up against brick walls which I have to climb over and over again to keep going towards my success, yet no matter what I have tried I seem to be met with no sorry we cannot help you, I have for six years been dealing with this and yet I still place my face towards the sun and carry on, because I am so determined through the adversity I am facing, yet nothing is going to stop me.
When you have removed family and friends from your life, " for a good reason" you dont have that resource to borrow money like most who started out and became successful say, I have no way to borrow money off my parents, friends or the bank or even from loan sharks, I have even done loads of presentations to potential backers and even the angel networks I met with said sorry we cannot help you. So I dont' have that privilege of accessing money like most can, my credit cards are non existence now, so I cannot book up and pay them back later like most can.
I had to remove everyone from my life, it was my peace of mind road map in order to make the much needed changes from my life so i dont attract another dysfunctional relationship into my life, I needed to leave all the dysfunctions behind and change for the good for my life.
Stepping into the new is scary at times, but i have my face fully towards what I am working so hard to achieve. My goals and dreams are to help people gain Flight within their Light so they can Soar High in their life, to re-invent their lives a new for the good for internal peace, i know if i can do it anyone can,
I have been told by people and even my eldest daughter that I am grandiose, I get that they dont get my life, and they dont need to, no one needs to because it is and has been given to me from a higher power..
My thinking it is your god given right to stand in your own light without any apologies what so ever, you do not owe anyone any explanation what so ever, because this is your life and you must be true to who you are and not who they think you are. I
say dream big and be grandiose, because you need to do things that
scare you right down to your core being to gain the success at the other
end of the uncertainty. Doubts are normal for everyone and never ever
allow anyone to use your doubts to prevent you from achieving big
, never ever let anyone invade your mind and make you doubt who you are.
What I include in my speech is what it's like to survive all forms of domestic abuse /
violence such as verbal, mental, economic, spiritual, stalking, rape, physical and emotional abuse.
I will speak up on how the abuse had a profound psychological deep seated impact on my life and why I ended up in an abusive marriage where I was also blamed for the abuse from my now ex-husband and his family, my children and my family who chose to place on me as though it was my fault for his choices to abuse me.
one who is abused and raped is responsible for the choice of others to
harm another human being, but we are responsible as survivors for getting ourselves back on your God given path.
My four books and my four pillars to help you gain flight so YOU can SOAR HIGH in YOUR LIFE.
Teardrops on my Wings | Broken winged Flight. |. Flight within your light | Love without Judgements
You can register for my books on my website, I have yet to find a publisher and as money is limited for me (at present) I cannot afford to self-publish, although that dose not stop me from sending them to publishers, because for every no will finally get me the big YES, be it publishers or self-publishing, everything is possible. Register for my books HERE
were born whole and complete and you were given a voice to use for
good, so never be silent ever, speak loud and clear, if the people in
your life offer no support, then "fire them" just fire them for good, because these kind of people are not meant to be in your life for a darn good reason, be grateful and thank the past stepping stones of life because they are what is designed by a higher power to gift you towards you having Flight within Your Light.
Every challenge we are presented with is a guide showing us the way forward, so I say embrace the challenges as the wind under your broken wings, because you will gain flight towards a better YOU, Like I have achieved.
I use to feel like I was being blind sided for years, that every thought, every step i took was classed as being wrong and that I was not allowed to think and feel for myself, in fact they made me feel like I was wrong on who i am. I love saying to people who think they can tell me who I am, "Hang on a minuet" You are not Me and only I no who I am and how I feel
I now know how talented I am and for years I was told I dont know what I am talking about or I cant do this or that, and I also now know it was about them and not me. I am highly multi talented and I can do anything i choose to do and to a high standard. I allowed myself to get so engulfed in their thinking as my own I became a robot and just did as I was told, doing it their way and not mine, forgetting about who I really am to smooth over the abuse. When I felt a light remind me to move away I found me again and how capable I am, I think my now ex husband and family from both sides new this and wanted to prevent me from being successful because they feared being uncomfortable for success within themselves.
I no longer allow myself to be around people who place blinders on my face I just will refuse to be around anyone who harms anyone else, I prefer to be around driven positive people who lift rather than destroy. This is how my Soar High Workshop has come about because I cannot fathom anyone hurting another human being because they lack self worth and must transfer their lack of self love onto others as though it is the person they direct it at.
For anyone donating towards helping me go to stage helping people to Soar High can attend my Online Workshop for free.
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