Dear people, I am GiadaV and I am collecting money to help my friend 鳳玉夢:
we are close friends since university, and she told me what happened to her lately, so I am willing to collect money to give her a whole new peaceful life without violence.
Here is her story:
鳳玉夢 lives with a family where her father is violent, while her sister has mental problems and therefore has been beated by her father several times: once she saw her father put a foot over the head of her sister after having carried her body from the bed to the living room, because she suffered from depression; another time, he kept her hair and scratched them in a violent way; the third time, he was about to kill her sister, since he choked her, but her mother arrived to stop the fight. 鳳玉夢 many times wanted to denounce her father, because of how he treated the sister, because he always made also economical violence over all the family, insulting and offending her family only because they needed money for buying food, books for school and university, and so on. He earned much but he spent all his money in electronic objects, other machines and bikes. He only gave to his family insulting them, offending them, throwing the money on their face. She never liked her father, so she never talked to him much. Her mother was always nice, but all the times 鳳玉夢 was sad or felt hurt by her father, her mother if she didn't fight him was angry at her. Her mother also always tried to make her stay in the flat rather than letting her having her life away, making her becoming dependent over her family. 鳳玉夢 started the university, but even though it was far, her father did not want to pay for a flat, but she could even not afford a grant to study since her father was not poor, and had to take every day train for 5 hours per day of public transportation. Her parents never wanted to pay for a single holiday of her despite her excellent grades and the fact she worked sometimes. She then won a scholarship and went abroad, and her father cried much saying he was guilty for everything and never complained to give her money while abroad. Her sister became worse and needed a hospital. But when she returned, her father and mother treated her worse than before. Her mother said "you can jump from the balcony" or "I will throw your clothes on the garden" or "you are not a good daughter since after you went abroad you do not care anymore about us" while she only became independent. Her father insulted her because she had a blood illness and had to do a blood analysis which was pricy. Later speaking with her sister he asked laughing when he should broke 鳳玉夢 bones. 鳳玉夢 cried much, but her boyfriend was far away. He supported her but couldn't meet her. Then, he was able to meet her and he came to take her out of the house. But as he went away, the situation got even worse. 鳳玉夢 had to lock herself in her room, safe from her dad and sleep in the morning since she had insomnia for the fear that her father could beat her up. In fact her father offended her again, asked her if she took drugs, if she was a hooker, that she should be homeless since she asked the normal money she should use for university. Then he said, I want to beat you up. She told him not to return home anymore or she would call the police. He returned home after one day, since her mother could not stay away from her dad. Her mother said that was his house too. She could not bear the situation anymore, and while having suicidal thoughts, she decided that it would be better to go to live far instead that ending her life. She then planned an escape plan, which was successfully achieved and she could return from her boyfriend, with some money she put apart, but after flying to her boyfriend, the mother of her boyfriend, as Asian mothers, started to complain about her every day, for the smallest things, influencing her son so much so to make him break up with her and being like his mother, while his father was contrary. 鳳玉夢also found out that her boyfriend had been unfaithful, so she had to find a work and a flat far from his house to finally start a new life living near her friends. Sadly, neither the job research was good. She found out a job which made her wait long time and could not start to work and give her no warranties, exactly when she needed money to afford a new rent, a bike to go to work, a cat to be her new family and a psychologist to help her healing. She asked to banks but banks did not want to give loans to her since she could not prove her salary. The anti-violence center said that since her mother and sister did not want to denounce, it was better not to denounce, they also said that all the things happened to her and her family were nothing, that there are more people beaten while they were beaten just once and just were treathened to beat them up. In addition to it, she was not able to afford the lawyer. So she had not to denounce her father and so, also could not have a little contribution to start her new life. Her friends also are not enough able to help her economically, so she is applying for many jobs and as now she is doing two jobs but still need to be hired in the long term. She needs to pay the rent before the time her salary will arrive. But she is not willing to ask help from people.
鳳玉夢 is also suffering from a very debilitating kind of anemia, therefore she needs to check her health every month and buy also medicines.
Therefore I want to collect money to send her so she will be able to start her new life.
- 1000 euros for 2 months deposit and 1 month of rent of the new room near her workplace.
- Around 5000 for buying new house furniture, kitchen appliances, a cat, the cat equipment, a bike or a scooter with a helmet
- Then 3000 to pay for her school tuition and books since she will need to pay also in one to two months.
- She needs 5000 to return to her home country to finish her bachelor and to take a leave for three months from her jobs, so to pay for flight, rent, food and medical expenses
- 2000 will be needed to pay for a psychologist to help her recover from her traumas and violence
- 3000 will be needed for one year of rent in her new flat
- 1000 will be needed for funding her dream travel country which is Japan, to meet her Japanese friend she does not meet since 2 years.
I would like to thank anybody who is willing to help my friend donating money by sending poetries and various rewards, with a minimum of only 5 euros of donations.
I really hope to be able to make my friend smile again and not worry to have to do other 3 to 5 jobs to maintain herself and her new life but to make her have one job and to study since she had to delay her bachelor due to her violent father behavior.
I wish you could help us drawing a rainbow (of happiness) on her face.