Getting married and need help!

Selfishly, this funding is towards my wedding that is coming up in July. I have been dating a girl for 1 1/2 years and we have been waiting a long time to get engaged, which we just did last week. The reason why we've waited for so long is because she was married before, but was unable to be officially divorced because her previous husband, one that she had tried to divorce for the last 3.5 years went missing. Because of this long process, our funds for the wedding have gone towards the ex-husband (joint accounts, so all of her savings, credit, etc has been compromised due to his careless and ridiculous spending sprees). We are saving as much money as possible, but not sure if we will be able to put forth enough money to cover our wedding and living costs (security deposit, rent).. Any contribution would be greatly appreciated, since we (especially her) have gone through a HUGE trial and are hoping for some good karma to come back around. Thanks and God bless.