Getting Married 10/5/12

My Fiances dad and step mother were killed in a head on collision on 8/1/11 and my fiance and myself took on the cost of paying for the funeral and all the other expenses. On 8/10/11 we had our first child, my fiances fathers first grandchild. We have really been struggling for the last year to try to save up the money we used to cover expenses for the funeral and moving their stuff. It would be such a HUGE blessing to us to be able to raise money to cover our wedding. This last year has been really stressful with my fiances father and step mother passing away, his grandmother and 2 uncles finding out they have cancer. If you can spare anything to help us out it would be greatly appreciated! We have already put our wedding off 2 times. the first time was due to us not being able to afford it and the second was because i was due to have our daughter shortly before our wedding date and his dad and step mom passing away. We want to get married so badly but just have not been able to do so. Thank you for taking the time to read this, it is my last resort!