My friend has fallen out of many failed relationships, but the most recent is the worst. She fell in love with a Pai-Kia (gangster/hooligan) and they have spent almost 2 years together. However, what is heartbreaking are all the things that her ex bf has done to ruin her life. To all the girls and women out there, I believe all of you have been through the experiences that I am about to list below. Unfortunately for my friend, she is only 18 years of age when she fell deep into this trench. Here are some of the unfortunate events that happened to her. I would appreciate if none of you judges her (even if you all may know her personally) because she is suffering from great emotional depression and lack self-confidence ever since. I hope that all of us will be able to reach out and offer her a hand to solve her financial problems.
1) She got cheated on countless times and her ex boyfriend slept with other women many times. He denied overtime he got caught red handed. But, she continued loving him and caring for him. Love is blind, yea?
2) She got involved in an electric bicycle accident while her boyfriend was pillioning her on the back seat. It gave her a fracture at her left ankle. Despite the electric bike being ok and she getting hurt, her ex boyfriend went into rage mode and scolded her for spoiling his e-bike. She just sat there crying and crying and he didn't even offer to flag her a cab to get home. After that, she had to go to the polyclinic to get medical attention for her fractured ankle. Took her almost half a year to recover and stop using crutches.
3) Her ex boyfriend is a gambling addict. In soccer. You guys heard of Singapore Pools? Her ex boyfriend is CRAZY. A month's pay can be spent gambling off in 2 game matches. Certain times even $1000 per soccer match betting. And when he loses the bet, he hits her. She comes to school with scars and bruises all over her, and yet she always denies saying that her boyfriend treats her very well and she fell down herself. How ridiculous?!
4) Her ex boyfriend literally feeds on her. Which man will spend a woman's money? Every single meal, every single time they go out, it was her expenses spent. Reason being, he gambled all his money away. How stupid.
5) And... the worst news that got all of us outraged, is that he got her pregnant. Not only did she fall into deep depression and she skipped school, she also went to the hospital herself and did the abortion. Can you imagine how much courage she gathered just to proceed with the procedure. She's super scared of pain and needles and yet she has to go through so much just because she loved the wrong person. And not to mention, her ex boyfriend didn't even pay a single penny! How ridiculous! She became very fearful of people afterwards and didn't dare to socialise anymore.
6) She's in debt. Because she borrowed money from her friends just to lend it to her ex boyfriend to gamble. She had to borrow money to pay HIS bills, pay for HIS school fees and expenses. He is really a sore loser! And after they broke up (because he cheated again), she asked him for the money he owed her, he threatened that he will tell her parents about the abortion and that he will give her no peace for the rest of her life. Being super fearful, she backed off and kept quiet. She didn't even dare to go to the police.
And if I haven't mentioned, her ex boyfriend is involved in secret society activities that's why she is so fearful. But yet, a simple girl will fall for him, just because she loved him for who he was, but he was never contented.
So everyone out there, every woman and every man out there, this is a real story that happened and it is not a make up. My friend needs help. She needs help from all of us to get herself back and settle all her debts. And most importantly, this guy needs to learn his lesson. Should you all have any suggestions on how to get that douche to pay up as well, please leave a comment.
All pennies, any amount, is very very much appreciated. I am aiming to raise $10,000 by Christmas 2016, as a blessing from God and from Santa. To give her hope in her life once again. Thank you all in advance. Even if you're unable to make a contribution, it's ok, share the story, spread the awareness. Guys like him deserves to be punished.