I am setting this up to surprise Jeff. I met Jeff through the doctor that did six of his surgeries.
Jeff was injured in a bad car crash and had seven surgeries. His wife left him while he was recovering from seven surgeries. To add insult to injury, Jeff had a bad heart attack soon after. Even though in poor health, Jeff had volunteered for a few organizations, and the recipients were in better financial condition and better health than Jeff, but Jeff didn't let anyone know how bad he was. Jeff has helped dozens and probably hundreds in many ways - I could probably write a novel about him, but Jeff is a proud man and does not ask for help from others and may not want to disclose information. He says he sometimes just does what needs to be done.
It has been 21 years since Jeff's life changed. He was stopped for a red light when Lynn D. wasn't paying attention and hit Jeff from behind. Jeff has recovered well enough to have an acceptable life with someone special, but has difficulties sometimes. Jeff met Jan and they found that they have a special connection. The problem is that Jeff lives in the US and Jan, short for Jianzhong, lives in Beijing China.
I have no doubt that Jan loves Jeff very much and would help complete his life and care for him unconditionally. Jeff told her of the problems he has, and despite that, she fell in love with him. It took some time for Jeff to accept Jan loves him for who he is, and has fallen in love with her.
The two complement each other and would make each other's lives complete and less stressful. I hope the best for both and am asking for help for Jeff so he can visit her and when they discover they are meant for each other, can marry and return to the states to live. Jeff helped me when I needed help while I was having surgeries, and when my husband left me. I want to try to return the favor for Jeff and Jan.
Thanks for reading this and I hope you will try to make their dreams come true. Jeff has given a lot of himself and financially over the decades to help other, and if anyone deserves a little help, Jeff definitely does. I only ask for enough for the basics for coach flight tickets and short stay in China - any extra would be also used for a modest engagement ring, marriage expenses, and the flight for her to come to the states. I calculate about $6-9K would be in a realistic price range for a simple wedding and travel expenses, but $5K is a very good start.