"Yes. It's a certainly a tumor and most probably cancer."
These are the only words and sound I hear for the past few days. I wish I don't but I do. There is no cure, there is no coming back, no changes or possibilities. Just a surgery. And loads of hope. That the consequences will be minimal and that we will find a place to secure our future.
His surgery is scheduled this Friday and we have only a few weeks before he starts chemo. So to be safe and know we will have an opportunity to start our own family in the future we need fund to freeze his sperm.
However, the bad luck in this life never comes alone so Bosnia and Herzegovina, where we live permanently, has no options of doing so, even if you had all the wealth of this world. There are no specialists, there are no sperm banks. My country, Croatia, is expensive and the process is long since my husband is a foreigner there :(
Our time is running out and we need a different European country to go to as soon as possible, but this costs.
If we do not get help in this short period of time, we might never be parents. If there are people in this world that wish to help, I will probably never ask for anything ever again.