Getting my life in order

What I'm about to say is a part of my life, a part I'm not proud of... Let me start with the beginning. After I finished graduating I got hired by a multinational which I was very proud of. And after an year I made the first mistake (biggest mistake of my life) asking for a bank loan... and in the next 2 years made another 2, thinking that I can pay them back monthly. Things got worse, problems came up and I barely got enough salary to get in the next month. I didn't even afforded to have a girlfriend. Until now, a few months ago I met a girl. We have now 5 months together and I know she's the one I want to marry. The thing is that, in order to marry her I need to get rid of the loans in order to afford to save some money every month so one day I can have a wedding...