my Wife have severe brain damage and please allow me to share our life story:
We have a 1 year old son together and he was prematurely born last year on March 2017. He was only 23 weeks plus 1 day. He was in KK NICU for 4.5 months and fortunately he's doing fine now( subject to more follow up medical appointments with the doctor) KK hospital was great!!
Then this year on the 24th January 2018, my wife was admitted to Changi Hospital and according to the doctors, her brain cells were gone. The prognosis was poor as her brain was severely damaged. She may remain in coma state for the rest of her life. Pardon me but I love her very much and I am not going to give up on her and will do whatever it takes to save her. She committed suicide by hanging herself . She might have post natal depression after the birth of our Son last year. She was also breastfeeding him since he was born on March 2017. When I found her, what I saw shocked me off and that scene is still playing in my mind each day. It was scary and sad. She was hanging there with one of her dresses tied to the shower pipes of the toilet. My mind was block and I panic. Her face and both arms were bluish, both eyes still open and part of her tongue protruding from her mouth. It took me some time to bring her down. There were some urine on the toilet floor and she will have lost control of her bladder by then. After I brought her down, there was a huge gush of breath from her while she was sitting on the toilet floor with her back leaning against the wall. Her eyes were still open and she began to regain her original skin colour. After awhile, she began to tremble. When the ambulance came, they sent her to Changi Hospital.
I also lost my job since August 2017 and had applied for 25 jobs since. Intend to start work after Chinese New Year but have to on hold the plan after the incident happen. The first 6 months will be very crucial for her case and she's Non communicative now. After staying in the hospital for 1 over month, she was discharged on the 1 March 2018 with tracheostomy and tube feeding. She is also bed bound and I have been taking care of her ever since. She require suctioning, changing of diapers , turning position to prevent bed sore every 3 hours. She's not mobile now and it's saddening to see her in this state as she used to be a healthy and fit person.
She will also want to see our son grow up. She told me before that she will want to cook nice and nutritional food for him every day. She also like to cuddle him to sleep every night and now that she is in this condition, our son begin to have sleepless night and will cry in the middle of the night which is unlike in the past.
I found a chance for her to recover with stem cell transplant but the treatment will be in overseas. The costs are high and I feel lost and helpless now. I'm not going to give up and will go all out to save Her. I love her very much and will do whatever it takes to save her.
She is a strong woman to me and I strongly believe that she will never want to end her life. After I brought her down, she had a huge gush of breath. I strongly feel that she want to live on her life with me as when I brought her down, she sat there on the toilet floor ,looking at me I can sense her and I know that she wants to live and not end her life.
I want to grow old with her and see the sunrise and sunset together with Her. I miss her vey much and will love her forever. We made a promise to grow old together and take care of each other forever when we are old and I'm not going to break that promise no matter what.
To all the lovers out there, please cherish those around you especially your loved ones. When you found that someone special, please cherish each moment with them as life is unpredictable.
Now then I know what is everlasting love. I wish that we can just have a simple meal together again.
Please help us and thank you for your support. Bless all the lovers out there and may you live happily ever after.
I can be contacted at 82238832.