Good Day to each and everyone, i am humbly asking your lovely hearts to help me to raise money for my legal campaign to pay for my divorce proceedings.
I am Lanifer Rab 39 years old from Bohol Philippines and I have 4 children from my previous relationship. My story begint when i was arrange to get married to a guy from czech republic,i arrived in czech republic year 2012 and i stay with him together for 10 months before we get married, ive got married with him on april 6,2013 in prague,it was fast that i could not even know him very well(behaviour,personality).
We stayed together 3 long years in that long period of time i had the chance to know him very well,i was not happy,i dont feel that i am his wife,i dont feel home as well but i stay because i had nowhere to go than to go back to Philippines which i do not want to do,i was afraid also that i couldnt support my 4 kids back there,they are my hope and my life. they are the reason why I am fighting to survive.
I was mentally abused but i tell no one from my family but some but some of my friends knows what ive been through with my marriage,my family knows nothing about it because i dont want them to worry about me. So i let them just think i am ok. Fast forward,1 year after my marriage ive got my temporary residence permit which i could stay less worry and travel back to Philippines for vacation to see my family back there and my children. Jan 30 2015 was my first flight back to Philppines. I was excited, happy to see them, days, weeks past and time to go back to my husband in czech so march 18 i flown back to czech republic and arrived march 20,at the time of my arrival in our own house i've noticed something was happening there, few days later i found out that there is a woman linked to my husband and the worst part was, he let her stay in our house and sleep in my bed, but he transfer her in the other room the day before my arrival. since the time i found out i'm freaking out but still i am in control i stayed calm inspite of what i discover because of my children and the hope that it will be ok. We argue we slightly fight and asked and begged him to transfer his mistress out from the house but it took a lil bit long before he did it, finally he transfer his woman 6km from our house but I've noticed he always go home late, i feel so lost and hopeless but I control myself not to do something that I will maybe regret later and damage my future and my kids and I know also that i almost have my permanent residence visa ,i always remember he told me many times that it doesn't mean he is married with me that he will change and the last message word he told me before I finally go out from our house and walk to train station was" Lani I only married with you to help you to stay in Europe and nothing more" then finally later that year 2015 i've got my permanent residence visa so i am now a residence of czech republic.
After getting my visa I flown to Belgium to find a job,i applied as a cleaning lady in one of the agency there and they accept me I start working and earned but it was not just long enough to save, the authority stop me, the agency told me about why,they told me that I can't have a legal stay and work unless I am married in Czech, they question my status and marriage my marriage is broken so why not but it took long time before I decided to do so.
Finally after a year of staying in Philippines I decided to have a divorce which I am now looking how to do it, how could I finance for it because honestly I really don't know what to do and I don't have money or resources for the preparation for my divorce i asked my husband to file and process all papers and send to philippines but after he said that all are finished he didn't send it and just said that it is ok for him to remain married with me, but I disagree with it because I just couldn't stay like this I want peace of mind and I want to be free and FREEDOM.
Lastly, the money that i'll be getting from this fund raising campaign will be used to support my divorce proceeding.Thank you everyone for giving your time to read my story, I hope you all understand why i'm doing this. GODBLESS!