Dissolving a Partnership

I am 53 years old, I have two grown children whom I adore and I am seeking to become dissolved from my civil partner. I am straight; we both are, but we had a love that we thought would transcend the fact that we were both female and both heterosexual. It was not to be, we were wrong. After 17 years together we are parting and there is no pain free way to take the steps needed to take. I am doing the best that I can but I need help. Louise Hay says to ask for what we need. Well, all I need is enough money to pay for the legal fees so that I can be free. And this is what I do today, I come here to ask for your help. Please help me to become dissolved. With blessings and good thoughts to you all.