Desperately Need Funding for Gastric Bypass Surgery

I know there are many other causes you can donate to.. However, I am not asking for charity... I am asking for help.. As a young woman, I was always healthy, active and positive minded. Sometimes, life gets in the way.. I've lost two babies during my marriage. I buried two more nephews due to health issues and accident; and in the last five years; I've buried my mother, father, brother and husband.. That takes a huge toll on a person.. Physically and emotionally. I admit my mistake.. I turned to food for comfort, it really couldn't be found elsewhere. After about five years of grieving and out of control weight gain.. I sought counseling and now really love the person I've become, personally and professionally. However, I seriously need gastric bypass surgery.. At 5'7", I'm pushing 300 lbs.. Oh, I know I've learned to dress well and "carry the weight". I look large but healthy.. Now, I am facing some serious health issues due to this weight. Examples: acid re-flux, high blood pressure, breathlessness when walking any distance, insomnia, etc.

I am requesting a chance to take my life back.. I want to be there when my daughter marries and my grandchildren grow up and decide to walk down the isle. I want to be a positive role model to those around me; not, someone to sympathize. I know times are tough, people.. The economy is nothing to brag about and everyone has bills. But, I've conservatively included all costs that could be incurred, (surgeon, surgical assist, nurses, anesthesiologists, hospital stay, medication, medical garments, and follow up visits, etc.) The total most conservative figure I've found (bar any emergency) is $30,000.00. I know each of you don't have that kind of money to part with.. I am praying, the spirit of the most high will touch your hearts, and, perhaps, you may find a way to part with a few dollars. If each person throws in a little.. It will be easier to reach the total needed. Keep safe...