Dental Hell

am 38 years old single mom who suffers from an enamel disease. Since the time I was 24 my teeth have begun to decay. I am a single mom of 2 kids (their of dad passed away in 2015) I am also the sole provider/caregiver to my disabled dad who is a disabled veteran he suffers from dementia unrelated to his PTSD. I have no other family or friends that I can turn to they can help me. It's only us. I've seen this on the news several times and people that I have talked to about my issue have suggested to reach out and ask for help on this forum so here it goes.... PLEASE HELP all of my teeth need to be surgically removed and I need dentures to be put in. I simply just want to live a pain-free life I simply I want to be able to live my life and enjoy being a mother and enjoy these times are my children without having to take time away from them or time off because my jaw is swollen while I'm fighting another infection. I don't want to miss out on things with them anymore because I am embarrassed to smile while I'm embarrassed to talk to their friends parents I'm embarrassed to go out. I can't eat half the things I cook at home for my own children and my own father I just want to have a smile, I want to be able to talk without my hand in front of my face, I want to laugh without holding my lips together, but most importantly I don't want to miss another moment with my kids because my teeth hurt.