Daughter’s Wedding

My daughter is getting married this year.  I am also going through a divorce. I had some money set aside to help pay for the wedding. My soon to be ex-husband took those funds and has not be able to re-pay them.  I don't have the heart to tell my daughter that I don't have the money to help pay things off for the wedding.  I've been working and trying my best to figure things out.  I am not able to take a loan out because I have been left paying for his bills that he walked away from since we are still married.  Please help! Mom with a broken heart! P.S. Her father told her he would pay for her wedding dress!  She ended up having to pay for it herself.  She is such a good daughter. She graduated from College, is working and just trying to move on with her life.