Did the classic one, went Greece and now I am stuck!
Married 16 year's. Due to violent incidents and indiscretions. I wanted a seperation. He is however a classic narcissist not wanting to loose face. Threw me out. Changed locks 3 times. Keept the kids. Me on street. I ended using my savings for rented rooms. Have moved 15 times in 24 months. I filed for divorce, alemony, custody etc. I have legal aid appointed attorney. Which all knows in Greece are a hoax they also only works when being paid. I do know though that she wants money to proccede.
I am isolated, and my job pays the minimun wage in Greece. One room I rent. Is 70% of my wage. Right now I am just withering slowly not seeing or having my children. The weekends and holidays are the worst I force myself to walk out so I dont just sit on the couch. Which by the way is not mine. Nothing in my place is. Since it's a rented furnished ( until 30-6) then I am forced to leave. The owners eant the 2 months high paing tourist. I have begged them to stay, but no. They have another 40 like this, and only care for making money. So July and august I might very lightly buy a tent and live in the campingplace here.
Trust me when I write this, there are no rooms or appartments to rent here all year....Sadly.
I also own a microwave. A set of plates(presents from a german lady).
All my personal effect and items from my life so far he has. Along with the most valuable ones, the children.
They live 5 min. away. That's how I know he has a woman staying over regularly there. Makes me sick to my stomach. She has properbly looked and used my things. ( well she can't read the cookbooks they're in danish)...
He has a succesful shop. She has a novelle bar. They buy of my kids with stuff. Fill there heads with shit. I know him hes a sick vendictive narcissist.
When at my lowest, I wont lie a say that when it's been days without talking to another human....funny thoughts come in your head.
It's been two year's now. His lawyer is a paid high profile lawyer. Which is also the reason for my isolation they had no problem filing a restraining order! A violent and highly untrustworthy against a mother of two. Who dared to say: No more! My appointed one I have paid her whenever a had anything at all. Apx. 600€.
This fundraiser is for lawyer filing an emmidiate claim of visitation rights. I asked another lawyer if that is the correct apx.amount. Answer was' Yes, and it is a good deal; (lawyers, what to say)!
The divorce and custody. His lawyer has paid to postpone twice. Which is why a 2 year wait is happening. Final date with NO postponement is October.
I wish I had family who could help. I dont. Friends none. This is a plea for help so atleast my kids can see me on the weekends. I am literally on a deserted island, on a Greek island.....